Wondering if you can save your relationship?
Or if it’s even worth trying?
I hear you.
Aloha
I’m Jude and I help women gain clarity, figure out what they want and support them with tools and actions to create better relationships.
You might have tried marriage counselling or couples therapy and been disappointed with the lack of results.
Maybe it felt good to talk it out and get things off your chest but then what? You still didn’t know how to make things better moving forward.
Counselling is all about what’s happened in the past and what’s caused you to get where you are. But complaining about everything that’s wrong in your relationship doesn’t help you get to where you want to go.
You are not alone.
My marriage was not perfect but I thought I was happy. That is until I discovered my husband had broken our marriage vows and had been lying to me. When I confronted him about it, he said he’d been unhappy for ten years. I didn’t know what else to do and asked him to leave.
I was in shock, afraid, unable to see any future for our marriage or myself and I just couldn’t understand how this had happened. I demanded answers, explanations turned into arguments with me sobbing, thinking “how could he do this to me?”.
Counseling didn’t help. I was looking for a miracle, for answers, but I didn’t even know the right questions to ask.
But then I found the solution I had been so desperate for in the form of a book: The Empowered Wife, by Laura Doyle.
I felt as though Laura had placed secret cameras in my house. The stories she told about her own marriage were very relatable and I learned things they do not teach you in school or counseling about how to have a great relationship. Laura’s Six Intimacy Skills™ gave me hope.
As I started experimenting with different cheat phrases and techniques, my husband’s reaction to the newly “skilled” me was surprising. He casually commented “You seem calmer”. At this point it had been two years since he’d moved out.
As a Laura Doyle Relationship Coach, I have been where you are…
I’ve been stuck in the heartbreak of an unhappy and seemingly un-fixable marriage. It was so painful and devastating. I used Laura Doyle’s Six Intimacy Skills™ to bring about amazing changes in my relationship and I can help you gain clarity on how to move forward, take new inspired actions and create possibilities as you become your most confident, empowered self. I will be with you, holding your (metaphorical) hand and supporting you every step of the way.
I once thought it impossible.
My relationship now is still evolving every day to new levels. I am happy and my husband does things he knows will make me even happier. My kitchen renovation is finally underway (something I never thought possible) and my husband is my hero.
Relationship coaching gave me the support I needed to grow and change, it allowed me to follow my heart, survive the toughest, darkest days and come out the other side as a partner worth fighting for.
